It is just not where you have been looking for it.
You have read the books. You have done the therapy. You can explain your own attachment style to a friend over coffee and be exactly right about it.
And then you go home, and you do the thing anyway.
That gap is not a knowledge problem, and you cannot read your way across it. Knowing why you go quiet has never once stopped you going quiet.
What closes it is doing the work somewhere other than your head — in the body, with someone watching who is not inside the story with you.
That is the whole of my work.
If none of that lands we are probably not a fit, and that is a fine outcome.
The Love Wheel is eight areas of your life scored honestly, one to ten. Each one sits with the energy centre it belongs to.
It takes about four minutes, and most women find it uncomfortable in a useful way. The thin spokes are not a verdict. They are the starting point.
Safety · Pleasure · Boundaries · Love · Voice · Intuition · Purpose · Body